I did not try it.
- I was ill prepared for the challenge.
- I was there – volunteering – with an entirely different task set.
- I’m not sure I could or would want to.
- I have weak ankles.
There it is. My expansive list of extremely relevant factors restricting my participation.
The guys who did it? They looked like they were having fun. Well, some did …
The event was the “Walk a Mile in Her Shoes” event sponsored by the Laurel House in Norristown, PA. I was there as a favor to a dedicated instructor and had no idea what the event was about. We were there to help out with traffic flow and parking for an event at Heebner Park in Worchester, PA.
Laurel House advocates for and empowers those impacted by domestic violence by providing crisis intervention, safe haven, supportive programs and resources. They also work to advance social change through preventative education and through community training and collaboration to foster a coordinated response to domestic abuse.
Apparently, this women’s shelter was a huge favorite of one of my Citizens Police Academy instructors. So when he mentioned he was looking for volunteers for a few hours on a Saturday morning, I enlisted.
But it wasn’t until I got there Saturday morning that I saw the red high heels. At first it didn’t click … That was until I saw the one guy get out of his car in a badly fit red cocktail dress and shiny red, thigh high, 4-inch heel boots.
No way, I thought. Gotta see this!
But first some relevant facts:
- 1 in every 4 women in the United States will experience domestic violence at some point in her lifetime
- An estimated 1.3 million women in the United States are victims of physical assault by an intimate partner each year
- The majority of family violence victims are female (86%)
- The cost of domestic violence in the United States exceeds $5.8 billion each year, $4.1 billion of which is for direct medical care and mental health
After two and half hours of Acting Enforcer of Ingress and Parking Privilege, I headed over to the event to watch the antics. A mile … in ill-fitting high heels … Some of these guys were running in them. Some just trying to run until realizing there is no way to walk in them let alone run. How women walk around in those things, I know not.
It was funny. It was absurd … some guys simply shouldn’t even try. But it was also very cool to see some men getting the seriousness of the problem and doing what they could to help out. Each participant collected pledges to be donated if they completed the mile.
Now, I have been very lucky. I was never a witness to or present at a domestic violence situation. At least not that I know of …
With 25% of all women experiencing domestic violence at some point in their life, you have to wonder.
I’ve been lucky … I think.