I know this will come as a shock to you, but it’s over!
Breaking up is always hard to do. And I’m certain you will be surprised at this unfortunate turn of events. But you have to ask yourself how you missed all the changes.
You should have noticed that I wasn’t coming around as much. You should have noticed that I rarely ever called. You should have noticed how quiet and unsettled I was around you.
To be honest … it’s not you, it’s me.
Every other month simply does not a relationship make. And yes, I’m sorry. I have been cheating on you!
It didn’t start out that way. At first, I was just being lazy … not wanting to put in the time or effort for our usual thing. I was desperate once and needed a quickie.
From there it progressed so rapidly, I was – I think – caught off guard. It was too simple, too easy, too addictive. And once I started, it seemed impossible to return to you.
Ours has been a healthy and productive relationship. We have been through so many life events, personal problems … Good times and bad.
You were always there to tell me I looked nice. And I was always happy to give you my advice, although frankly, I suspect you very rarely took it.
I heard you on the phone one time after I pleaded with you to follow your heart. I heard you on the phone with that other guy … in the other room … whispering so I wouldn’t hear. That time it hurt, but it convinced me that all I was to you was a means to an end.
Well, let’s not rip the scabs off old wounds.
Fact is, I really don’t need you anymore. I really don’t need anybody! I can do all this myself.
And the next time you need a tip on a football bet, go ask that idiot who told you to take the Cowboys and the points!
I hope we can still be friends …